Lightbulb story.

Yes..I am obssessed with man who can change a lightbulb or rather help me change a lightbulb. But at this point, only my father ever really did that for me...and he was the reason for my silly fetish. I remember when i was a kid...and there was once the lightbulb went off in the bathroom and i was too timid to bathe. My father save the day and change the lightbulb and i tot..hmmn...my future Mr right shall be someone who needs know how to change a light bulb. And so..that is the story.But all my frens tot it was a silly fetish becos according to him...all man know how to change a lightbulb...fair enuff...I am not against his statement..it is an advantage to me. Then over the years...I have been observing. Unfortunately...I am the one who change my own lightbulb. all the while And the closest...is that lightbulb guy who offered a lightbulb from room 9...and leave. And so...being a person who believe in absolute independence....I have manage to change the lightbulb several times over the years which I am growing proud of myself each time i change one. Yesterday...my fren JM came to my house. A surprise out of schedule visit. like i mentioned earlier in my previous blog...TOO BAD...he really ended up sleeping among my trash...his complained was...he is greeted with a pile of papers and notes when his head turn left...and a mess of wires when his head turn right...then he is traumatise by the fact that he can see chunks of my hair all around my place...his dying wish yeaterday was to take the first bus home the next morning...i guess...but anyway...yah...yesterday was the ultimate chance to confirm that this guy and I are platonic. i open the door...and switch on the light...SNAP!...it went of after a split second...the usual...the bulb fused. It is about time...the shine-life of the bulb here is really roughly about 3 to 5 mth...and yah...it is about time to change one.. at the very moment when JM is at my door step...I was secretly looking forward to see how interesting occassion it can be...at least to show that (a) at least this man knows how to change a lightbulb and
(b) if this man shall be the man who help me change the lightbulb.

I remember LW made a comment like this just yesterday "you never noe"....yah...i though i never noe...

Indeed, I never know...and you never know...

Guess wat.

I end up changing my own lightbulb...and he just sat there to watch it.

That is it...this incident has fully indicate that there will be absolutely nothing other than frenship between he and me. And which...in fact we have long concluded this before he came and visit.

p.s/However, I would like to say this to JM...greatest apology that you did not have the privilege to stay in a at least better looking condition...Too bad...becos you came without proper one week notice...I think i did warn you before but you din heed my advice. Sorry, but serve you right.

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Sunshine boy vs olive boy round 5

Yes...I saw sunshine boy...he was walking in the lecture theatre today behind me...and that's all..

While i was not really conscious about where olive boy was...I sat down and saw him sitting two rows in front and on the left of me...then he change plce with his fren and ended up two rows away, in front of me...with my direct front row empty...therefore had a very clear view of his every movement.

I took a picture of him.

In fact a few pictures of him.

Then right after the lecture...I walk down the lecture theatre and he saw me...I put up the usual "not very obvious..but is smiling" look when i see him...and he..apparantly saw me but din have any bigger expression than a look that indicates he probably saw me with a less than a 1 second glance...VERY CASUALLY...and that's it.

How sad...in fact, the saddest for the whole weekend...worse than the last two days when i din see him.


And hence, nobody wins today...not even me.