The bestman

Who else can be called the bestman....other than the groom's bestfriend.

Yes.

He is the bestman.

Yahui was married off yesterday in a joyous mood...while me, the bride'smaid.....notice the bestman for the day....rather interesting fact about him was...he is still single and available.

YET, this man...is a NO-GO for me.

*disappointed*

I actually knew the existent of this man 3 years ago...

And it was yahui's idea to matchmake me with the bestman so that the 4 of us...can go out together...unfortunately...we are simply not fated to meet...for a couple of times..either I was too busy...or have sudden assignments....that I couldn't join them...or the bestman...was too busy and couldn't join us...

We somehow...never meet.

Then, I was off to glasgow...for 2 and a half years....
While the bestman...was of for national service for 2 and a half years....

Finally I was back......and last week during the church rehersal...I finally met this man. The bestman of cos.

After some cheeky discussion with yahui about the prospect of me and the bestman....she conclude that the bestman is not suitable for me.

She says...he will not consider me.
BECOS...I AM NOT A CHRISTIAN.

hmmm....after so many brilliant invention created by man to enhances communication and break barriers....human beings contradict themselves by creating barriers at the same time...

And so...I resign my fate to the fact that this man is not meant for me...
unless he manage to convert me...(which is not likely)...or I convert him...(which is not likely too)...OR...we respect each other becos of love...which haven't happen YET.

Then I told yahui..."perhaps...we are just fated to meet yet not fated to be together...( just to take note...we only know each other for 3 days only...and haven't spoken more than 10 words probably...no signs showing the bestman interest for me...while I do steal glances of him ocassionally out of curiosity for 3 years..)


I told yahui..."既然是有缘无份,那就下辈子吧"...(which means..since we are fated to be meet yet not fated to be together..perhaps in our next life...)...and yahui said the most cruel words to me ...

She said..."我们christian没有下辈子" ( we christian dun have next life)

OHHHHH.....of cos....christian goes to heaven...and non-christian like me...reincarnates to our next life...

which means....我们连下辈子都没有...(we dun even have next life to meet...I have though...he dun)

And so...yahui totally cut off all hopes and possibility for me.

This bestman...is really not bad...
But TOO BAD...for us...we don't even have a chance...not even in our next life...


We will be too far away from each other by then...

How far?..

He will be in heaven, while I will still be on earth...

Heaven and earth...that far.

Hmmm.....if that's the case...

NEXT PLEASE.

Cutting hair issue

I dreamt of myself having a new haircut yesterday night...
I have lost count how many times i have dreamt of myself cutting my hair...

The last 3 times...was not so sad compared to the previous ones....

As far as I can remember...there was once...I dreamt that i have a mushroom looking hair style....and i feel strange in my dream...not sad though...probably feeling funny...

Another time...was a short haircut...yet I was actually feeling happy...

Yesterday night...I was telling ruisui...it is time to cut my hair...
and I dreamt that I cut my hair...this time...
I was feeling weird...

I think it is time to cut my hair....for a very long time...I wanted to.

NOw...it is no doubt that I will cut my hair anytime from now on...
The only problem left...

How short...or how long do I want my hair to be....how much to cut....how much not to cut....I have been thinking hard lately....

My only worries...is that...I will lost some of my secret admirers for my long hair...hahaha...they could be more disappointed than I do...if there are any.

HA.

Oh well...I will think about it.

Cut my hair...hmmmm...

It's time.

Lovely day for everybody...

Finally....yahui, my best friend is happily married off to the man who brings out the best in her....
Both of them...are made for each other...

I was so happy and touched...that when she was walking down the ale with her father in the church...I was standing behind her in tears...

I was happy for her...

Wish them all the love and happiness...

Qiyun