Chemistry.

Everytime I meet a cute guy...

The first 3 questions that comes to my mind will be...
Is he married?
Is he attached?
Or is he gay?
That is...morally, if he is married, he is OUT.
And if he is attached....not so bad...but still he is OUT.
Gay?...I am OUT.

Then, after this guy pass the 3 pre-requisite questions...

There comes the "holy" question.
Is he a christian(or muslim...)?
If so, fullstop.
I worship nature, science and humanism...art, philosophy and LOVE.
Not God.
End of story.

However, if he still manage to pull through.

It will be the time when interesting things should happen.

Rationally, if you want to breakdown how a relationship can start,
maybe the above is one way.


BUT!

Things in life do not work according to your rational most of the time...

You can't go out and ask all the guys whether they are married, attached or gay.
They do not have the obligation to tell every woman they met whether or not they are available.
We probably will find it odd
if any guys were to tell us they are available for the first time we met.

And so, it will be impossible to know the 3 answers before we get to know each other.

Soon after you suddenly feel a little light headed...
You no longer have the courage to ask him straight.
Because u will live in denial that...
He could be married...(No!!!!)
Or attached....(WHY??!)
Gay....(Too bad.)
You will be dying to know...
YET dunno who to ask.

If things happen too quickly and u suddenly fell in love...
It will be a dilemma to find out that he could be a christian or muslim...
If u really love this someone.
That is the point where u had to make a decision.

Sounds like some lab testing...which is RUBBISH.

Actually...
there will be more that 4 questions to ask.

It has millions.

Is he kind?
Is he capable?
Is he independent?
Is he humorous?
Is he cute?
Is he caring?
Is he mature?
Is he dependable?

Can he stand my messiness?
Can he appreciate my weird collection?
Can he support my artistic ambition?
Can he change the lightbulb for me?(My strange fantasy)
Can he cycle?(Yet another secret fantasy)
Can he fix a computer?(practical reasons)

What can i do for him?

But above ALL...there should just be ONE question to start with.
Do you feel the electrifying sensation when your eyes meet.

That thing...
we call it chemistry.