After seeing too many...
I realise the hurtest part of a breakup...is not when he says we are still friends...or watever shit they may offer after the breakup...
but to tell you they are attached again...
or worse getting married...
Not that we are so selfish to deny other people of searching for their own happiness...but you will start to think...how can this person who claimed that he loves you so much and how much one moment can love someone else so quickly...
It takes time. Of course maybe after some odds years if someone I used to love tells me he is getting married finally...I will be happy for him...but I definitely do not wish to know that he had YET another fling after he hurt me and someone is going to be hurt again...
For those who are so hurt, BE STRONG!
MEanwhile, if you happen to be NOT hurt during a breakup...then be smart to realise you could be the person who might have hurt somebody...in that case...
At least be considerate to the person you once claimed you have loved...
Please.
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when the person revealed that he has moved on before you do....
do you ever wonder...
is there any secret satisfaction or feeling of revenge hidden under those polite casual concerns of 'how are you'?
or you simply give the benefit of doubts/trust that those concerns are genuine and sincere?
or perhaps...
it depends on what you remember of him...
and the way the breaking-up happened...
and if you dare to trust anymore the general 'kindness' of people
-RS
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